5.04.2011

Small town living

Yesterday was a nice hot day.  Warm enough that everything is warm, no creepycold breezes.  Not so warm that you can smell the dumpsters behind the fancy fish and meat restaurants.
Warm enough that it's good to be out but not so warm that people are cranky.  Or naked.
A perfect day for being downtown.
With a five year old.

Jake and I hopped on the subway after work and school and rode to Walnut Locust, the first subway stop that is really and truly downtown when coming up from the south.  At the top of the stairs, Jake asked if we can just stand and watch.  So we did.  Pointing out hawks circling the buildings and angels in the architecture.  We saw some people I know from work.  People who haven't seen Jake in years.  And some moms that Jake knows from school.  And then some more people.  And another who knows someone I know and don't I know you? 

Then down Walnut to Rittenhouse, to play with the statues and throw pennies in the fountain and quarters in the guitar cases and have a good run with the dogs and the rich kids.  The people who work in the stores between here and there where I sometimes shop come out and say "hello, Lora" and "you must be Jacob".

Over to the coffee shop on 12th and Locust for a lemonade, which we drank on the front steps because all the tables and couches were taken.  There goes some more people I know, headed to my gym next door or the bar up the street for a quick cold one.

Around to the burrito place on 11th and Walnut for dinner where we saw Amelia's mom- Amelia took swim class with Jake a couple years ago.  Swim class around the corner at my gym next to the coffee shop a few doors down from the bar where people were headed for a quick cold one.  A bar that Dave's friend owns.  A bar where I have a show in two weeks from today.

Catch the bus back home again.  With the neighbors who we haven't seen since the last time it was warm enough that it is good to be out.

As Jake went to sleep last night he said, "Mom, I love living in our little town.  Everything is interesting and right where I need it to be and we all walk along the same paths.  If you stand still long enough your friends come to you.  If they stand in one place for the right amount of time, you will find them".

16 degrees {comments}:

Heather said...

It took me about five years of living in the city to appreciate that about it as well. That is kid is just wow. :)

LceeL said...

There was a time when it was said, that if you stood at the corner of State And Madison in Downtown Chicago, everyone you would ever meet in your life would pass you.

I'm sure that isn't the case anymore. State and Madison isn't as important as it was when I was a little boy.

But it's the idea.

Bridget said...

WHY IS HE SO SMART?!

I miss philly so much. I came home for work a few weeks ago and I bumped into a dozen people I knew within a few hours. God, I miss it.

Bekah said...

That is one smart kid. I would love to live in your small town!

Tiffany said...

What a kid. That's awesome.

Brenda said...

I am glad to know that Philly is still that way. It was always like that when I was kid. No matter where I was there was always someone I knew. My father always use to say he knew everybody and I believed him because wherever he went people said hi to him. It wasn't until I was much older and I mean much older that I realized he said hi to everyone if people he didn't know personally, and they always said hi right back.

South Philly is like a little town, and center city is highly underrated!

Jo said...

This may be my favorite of your posts. Ever! Can't put it into any other words than to say I have a huge smile on my face right now. I love feeling like that and I do live in a small town - makes me marvel that one could feel that way in a city, especially one so young! (Who is wise beyond his years). I do love Philly, now even more :-)

slommler said...

He put it so well..."if you stand long enough"....!!!
Hugs
SueAnn

Tavia said...

He is amazing. Being appreciative of the simple things in life is really something for all of us to strive for.

Amanda said...

That's exactly why I left the town I grew up in. Everyone still knows I'm so and so's granddaughter, daughter, etc. I like a degree of anonymity.

Molly Pants said...

I love our small town too.

Holli said...

What a great day Lora. Days like that spent with you will be branded in his brain forever. That's so cool.

I love how his mind works. He's such a perfect old soul.

Sierrosmith said...

Philatopia it is!

eleanorstrousers.com said...

Love it! I've had the same experience in New York. (Which astounds me since I only visit every few years or so and didn't grow up there). I love when big gets small.

Sara R said...

i heart phila. what is your show all about?

Lizzi said...

I want to move!